"Give Up the Chase"

It's hard to submit to a word from God when you don't fully understand it. It's perimeters aren't laid out, there are no rules, and there are no promises at the end. Friday night God told me so clearly to "give up the chase". As far as I know that means I need to give up pursuing any relationship. I need to stop focusing on it, but its hard, so hard. I don't know what that word means, its rather cryptic. I guess I would really like to know what will happen if I did give it up. Mostly if my guy would come. I guess once I give up the chase I will truly find out what it means to live by God alone, leaning on His strength and discovering how He is enough. Am I ready to give it up?